I have had a lot of people look at my blog and tell me that its very depressing. Some others have told me that I write about things that happen in everyone's life but many cant express. But nonetheless they too think life is worth bitching about. So I have decided that if life is anyway a bitch, why give it more pleasure by letting ourselves feel its victory over us.
There are so many things in life that give us happiness, but I have realized that we are still stuck on things that don't give us pleasure. Its like this perfect boy, who is very well behaved and who listens to his parents. But suddenly out of a fist of anger he does something horrible. One bad thing erases all the good you have ever done. And this good boy becomes bad.
In life too, we may have so many good things that happen to us, like our first friend in an alien city, or the smell of rain, or the hug you got from someone you have a crush on. But we forget all this and focus all our energies on the bad that happens. Why do we do this?
We do this because we need to vent out our feelings, our frustrations, our anger and sometimes even our loneliness. Then why blame life and call it a bitch? Life is not all that bad. Yes, sometimes we don't know why we react to a situation in a certain way. But in the end we blame it on the people around us or best yet, on life!
Agreed that life through some unexpected curve balls at us, but that doesn't mean we don't equip ourselves to bat. We need to know, even understand, that tough times are the only ones that make us realise the joy of happy moments. For example, when we are separated from the one we love, and when we meet them again, it feels so nice. But if we were always with our loved ones, then we may not probably realize their worth.
There are some cases which are reversed. Sometimes when we feel suffocated with people around, being on our own gives us immense pleasure. But we wouldn't have realized it until we were placed in uncomfortable situations.
What I am trying to say is that, life maybe good or bad. But it could be fantastic if we found all the small things that make us happy. So from today, I am hoping to write more positive posts and probably share with you how life could change if we stayed positive and happy.
Blessed Be.
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